my life in words and pictures

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this is me, trying to put down my thoughts about everything and anything in the most sincere way possible, trying to find order in the chaos that is my life, trying to throw some mediocre-to-good pictures in along the way and trying to do it all in such a charming way that maybe someone actually finds pleasure in reading it all.

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good advice ... ?

don't get hassled by stuff you don't need
too much money ... drugs ... clothes ...
whatever, all of it
will make you feel shit
if you have too much of the same thing
... just balance it out a bit
go for walks
read the news
listen to music
get some good loyal friends
let yourself be amused by little things
and remember ...
try and smile
and make other people smile

try and be happy

i could really really use some good advice right now. i'm lost. i know a few weeks ago i said things are moving forward. well, they are, or were, but the problem is, i'm stuck here, i can't go anywhere until june, and when i say things are moving forward, then that's me finding out what i want to do in the future, as far as anyone can figure that out, but the problem really is, i can't DO anything until the summer.

so ... what do i do? i'm stuck, and being stuck wouldn't that big of a problem. but i'm lost. because on top of being stuck, i hate what i'm doing right now. it's this whole german law thing ... i don' want to get into it. but to explain it sufficiently, i HAVE to continue what i'm doing now for another 4 and a half months. after that, i'll be off pursuing my dreams (hopefully), but until then ... fuck!

so this is why i'm kind of in a lasting state of despair at the moment, and this is why i am totally crazy about some good advice on how to enjoy life, even when it's stagnant and bleak much of the time.

oh no i have to go now. well ...

any suggestions?
1st Feb 2008, 12:14  


four and a half months may seem like an eternity from where you're standing right now, but viewed from the other side it ain't nothin' at all, just bide your time and distract yourself as much as possible!

1st Feb 2008, 14:24

taniwha says:

good advice Para - I also wonder what opportunities this gap may bring

1st Feb 2008, 18:57

anonymous says:

i'm lost too and i can't do what i want to do just like you. i think there is no good advice. just try and enjoy all the little good things.

1st Feb 2008, 21:40

chocolate says:

thanks you sooo much these are all so great.
para and taniwha - i know you're obviously right.

rosi - that's the simplest and probably the best advice to give.

and wingmaker - as far as i can predict, judging by the habit i've been developing of actually trying out the all things you tell me, i'll probably follow your advice :)


3rd Feb 2008, 23:18